Feral Soul


Domestic Violence Awareness Month - that's what it means.  And violence takes many forms.  I won't bother with my story.  It's out there if anyone wants to hear it.  But I have made it part of my life to do... Continue Reading →


Pair Bonding

I decided to watch a youtube video on why a person is single.  Possible triggers warning: After all that I've been through in my life, let alone the last "relationship" (in quotes because I don't think it really qualifies as... Continue Reading →

Trauma is Trauma

Trigger Warning - My clowder has been so violently assaulted.  A neighbor's dog (and let's just say that more than one neighbor allows their canines to run loose and gets away with it) attacked the ferals.  One, I found dead.... Continue Reading →

Anniversary Triggers

Okay, if you've lived through any abuse or trauma, there are dates that set you off.  One of mine is quickly approaching.  It was a very difficult moment for me.  It was a necessary one.  It was one of the... Continue Reading →


Compersion is basically when you feel happiness for someone else because they are happy.  This, however, is a rough road when you're in a relationship and the other person wants to either move on or to enjoy the company of someone... Continue Reading →

Things that make you go….

....hmmmmm Probably trigger warnings.... I've not been feeling well.  My fms has kicked in to join the party.  So it's a whole lot of "bleh". A friend checks on me from time to time...."feeling any better?"  Well, no...but I try... Continue Reading →

Empath Overload

It's not a new phenomenon.  But sometimes the realization of what's happening is. Empaths tend to feel things that don't belong to them.  We absorb our surroundings, the population in general, pretty much any kind of energy...depending on our personal... Continue Reading →

When do you…

...trigger warnings a plenty I expect... We all have times in our lives when we either continue to take the garbage dumped on us by others or we take a stand.  How we take that stand is up to us,... Continue Reading →

Self Care

Trigger warning(s) - plus I'm rambling I was driving.  It was a nice, bright, cloud-dotted sky morning.  I felt a sudden rush of mixed emotions, but I opted to go with the self-love theme...mainly because I've worked hard to become... Continue Reading →

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